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Wednesday, 1 April 2015
Perplexed.
It saddens me when I see cute couples break off from each other because they felt like they were not "made for each other", or when they feel like they are way too different. However, it made me realize something, and that is that, no matter how strong your feelings for each other are, if you guys are not made for each other, then you are not. Don't tell me opposite attracts, I don't believe in that bullshit. The only kinds of "opposite attracts" I believe in will prolly be the physical traits kind of "opposite". I really don't think that people who looks at things way too differently can get along well. Why, you may challenge, so let me tell you why. Like I've always said, there's more than one way of seeing everything, every scenario possible. So if you can't see eye-to-eye with somebody, you'd tend to disagree. And what arises from disagreements? Disputes. Anger. Sorrow. Nothing good comes out of disagreements, ever. I mean, of course, one party can give in and let the other have it their way. But for how long can a person give in? And is it really worth it to give up what you really believe in for somebody else? We don't simply change ourselves just to accommodate others, that's not how life should be.You may think I'm a brat who always want things to go my way, or that I am somebody who doesnt ever like to give in. Well, maybe you're right. I mean, if I'm at fault, I'd definitely try to change. But sorry, sometimes, certain traits just can't be changed. And it's not even the genetic traits that I am referring too. In fact, given today's modern science technology, it is highly possible for you to change your physical (aka genetic) traits. Just google the changes you want to see in your own body. Pretty sure 9 out of 10 can be done. Kkkk, as I was saying, the way a person act is mostly dependent on their life experiences, we are made of what we've been through. There must be a reason why people think the way they think, act the way they act and do the things they do. Don't judge if you don't know their stories. But then again, everybody judge. Sometimes, I really hope that I can find somebody who feels the same way as I do, somebody who shares the same sentiment. I ain't no dreamer and I ain't no saint, I'm just a realist who does things pragmatically. Although I may sometimes cross my own border and allow my feelings to rule my thinking, then end up screwing my own mood up too. That feeling is....horrible. |